Daily Archives: June 3, 2010

My Newest Collection – Old Friends on Facebook

3 June 2010

It’s been a long time since I started a new collection.  Without realizing it I have done just that.  I have been gathering friends on Facebook for about two months.  I was unsure about becoming involved with this particular piece of popular culture.   I’m generally not what you’d call “cool” or extremely social.  I mostly joined Facebook because the current thing in internet businesses is “social media” and I didn’t want to ignore a valuable marketing tool.  I’m not sure that it has done much for marketing but it has been fascinating.

I am on the other side of the continent from almost everyone I knew up until eight years ago.  That’s a lot of people who I have not been in contact with for a long time.  It was a revelation to find out how many of my relatives had Facebook accounts.  Facebook kindly offered to make me friends with various members of my high school class.  I declined that one because of the years of therapy it might bring on.  However, it occured to me that there might be other connections that I could reestablish with some degree of comfort. The results have amazed me.  I am now in touch with valued friends I haven’t seen or heard from in decades.  One recent connection was bittersweet as It brought me the knowledge of a friend’s passing.

Friend’s are the two-way artifacts of social interaction.  They point to us and we point to them.  I hold them in fond memory and reread the pages of our stories like a good book that always has a new twist waiting to be revealed.  There is a value to my collection of old friends transcending time and ever increasing in value.  You won’t find that at an auction.

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